I do have a response to ditz and Vix and I promise to try and tackle it if it is the last thing I do (and it may well be). It is something very deeply rooted in my heart and mind and has caused me more problems online than anything else I can think of. It has to do with how many people define "friend" and how I define it. Those are often worlds apart. It isn't a matter of who is right or who is wrong, just a matter of how the term is defined. Please give me time to format my thoughts on the subject and put forth a new thread on the subject.